Or that some Very Experienced Player in town from SF or LA or wherever will show up, take a look around at our humble efforts, and judge us to be lame.Īnd every time the Palm Springs Bondage Club has met over the past year and a half, all that stress and anxiety is for nought. Or that we’ll be invaded by lookie-loos walking around wanking. Or that it will be a bad ratio of tops to bottoms. Or that it will be all inexperienced people showing up. So now, I worry that too many people will show up. At the third meeting we had almost fifty people turn out, and that felt like over-capacity, with more people standing and watching than actually playing at any given time. This has not been the case with the Bondage Club after the first meeting in March of 2017. When I host events, my stress during the run-up is usually “What if nobody shows up?”. Every time the Palm Springs Bondage Club has our monthly meeting, I am this close to losing my shit.
